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I Tried Boredom for 30 Days

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A middle-aged man sits at a wooden dining table in a warm, sunlit room, quietly eating a simple meal of chicken, potatoes, and salad while looking out the window, no phone or other distractions in sight.
No phone in sight.

I was addicted to my phone. I checked it while eating, walking, and cooking. I hadn't been alone with my thoughts for years. When things got quiet, I felt worried and reached for my phone.

Then I read something interesting. Our brains need quiet time to work well. Good ideas come when we rest our minds. So I tried something new for 30 days.

Every morning, I drank coffee without my phone. No news, no podcasts. I walked for 15 minutes without headphones. I ate meals in silence. It was very hard at first.

On day three, I almost stopped. I was anxious and couldn't focus. I kept reaching for my phone, but it wasn't there. It felt like my brain was addicted to the noise.

On day eight, something changed. During a quiet walk, I remembered a song my dad used to play. I called him, and we had the best talk in months.

On day twelve, I solved a work problem that had been difficult for weeks. The answer came while I was washing dishes in silence. My brain just needed rest.

Now I enjoy the quiet moments. Try eating one meal today without your phone. See what happens.

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Speaker: British Male  Duration: 1:31  YouTube

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  1. Q: Would you try a 30-day challenge like the poster did? Why or why not?

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    I would try a 30-day challenge because I think less phone time could help me focus.

  2. Q: Do you think silence helps people think better?

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    Sure, silence can help people think better as it gives them time to focus.

  3. Q: When do you have good ideas? While doing the dishes, taking a walk, or doing something else?

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    I often get good ideas while taking a walk because I can think without distractions.

Discussion Questions
  1. What do you usually do while eating meals?
  2. Do you think silence helps people think better?
  3. When do you have good ideas? While doing the dishes, taking a walk, or doing something else?
  4. Do you listen to music or podcasts when you walk?
  5. Would you try a 30-day challenge like the poster did? Why or why not?
  6. Will the poster continue his new behavior or go back to his old habits?
  7. What bad habits do you have? What good habits do you have?
  8. What is one habit that you'd like to change?
  9. How do you contact your family members? How often do you contact them?
  10. Do you spend time looking at your phone even when you're with other people?

Discussion Questions

  1. What do you usually do while eating meals?
  2. Do you think silence helps people think better?
  3. When do you have good ideas? While doing the dishes, taking a walk, or doing something else?
  4. Do you listen to music or podcasts when you walk?
  5. Would you try a 30-day challenge like the poster did? Why or why not?
  6. Will the poster continue his new behavior or go back to his old habits?
  7. What bad habits do you have? What good habits do you have?
  8. What is one habit that you'd like to change?
  9. How do you contact your family members? How often do you contact them?
  10. Do you spend time looking at your phone even when you're with other people?